You are correct that the regulator needs to feel a vacuum for it to flow fuel. Did you install a Model J?- I've had ALOT of problems with the model J in recent years- I've been replacing them with the Cobra with good results thus far.
Check & make sure that the diaphram inside the mixer pulses up & down while the engine is cranking- you may have a vacuum leak.
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