The only time I've seen grit/chunks of disc friction material is when a wrong type of trans fluid is used. Usually a trans which has pressure issues which cause the friction plates to wear- the material coming off the plates is extremely small, not gritty & the trans fluid smells burnt- it really stinks. Did yours have a strong odor of burnt fluid?- I suspect not.
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