there are 2 relays back there just under the hood, one controls tail lights and the other is a backup relay for the backup lights if i'm not mistaken.
the tail light relay is surely suspect but i'd also find the fuse for the lights and double check that, being you've lost all lights.
Just a thought to ponder ;o)
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